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FATED LOVE IN PERE LACHAISE CEMETERY: THE STORY OF HELOISE AND ABELARD

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If you don’t feel like visiting the love lock bridge, then why not head to Heloise and Abelard’s graves? Today, the grave is a must visit for any young couple in Paris… Ahead lies a classic tale of forbidden love, medieval Paris, and more mystery than your brain can handle!

Pere Lachaise sits in the North East of Paris. With tree-lined boulevards and even signage, Pere Lachaise Cemetery is in a world of its own. A world inhabited by the dead. Reputedly over a million of them…  Although Pere Lachaise cemetery observes the seasons just like the rest of Paris, it’s eerily silent.

As well as being the final resting place of the likes of Oscar Wilde and Edith Piaf, it also happens to be the final resting place of Heloise and Abelard. The tale of Heloise and Abelard is a classic one, filled with forbidden love, a teacher/pupil relationship gone awry. It also happens to be one of the most well known and greatest love stories to survive from the middle ages.

Below: an etching of Heloise and Abelard’s final resting place; the Abelard and Heloise Tomb

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Who were Heloise and Abelard?

Abelard and Heloise lived sometime between the 11th and 12 centuries. No one is exactly sure of their birth dates and their lives have become romanticised with time, more mythical, less factual. Heloise was a French nun who went on to become an abbess (head of a convent).

Eloise is best known for her scandalous love affair with Peter Abelard, a prominent philosopher, and theologian. Abelard also happened to be up to 20 years older than Heloise.cHeloise was born a rich noblewoman, raised by a protective uncle.

Her Uncle, Fulbert, also happened to be a canon and Heloise was raised safely within the confines of Notre Dame Cathedral. As a young wealthy woman was expected to be fully educated in the Classics (i.e. Latin and Greek), only the best tutor was hired for her.

The tutor hired happened to be the best-known theologian of his day, Abelard. Upon meeting, Abelard was amazed by the young woman’s natural aptitude for learning and her fascination for the classics. With time, this fast friendship swiftly turned to love and by 1115 or 1116, Abelard began an affair with Heloise.

With little knowledge of contraception, the secret affair produced an illegitimate child and in turn, a secret marriage. When Heloise’s uncle found out about the affair, he was furious. He had Abelard castrated and Heloise was tragically locked away in a convent. The two lovers kept in correspondence via letters and over time, these have become almost as famous as the affair itself.

Below: a colour print of Abelard and Heloise’s Tomb from 1831.

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How did Heloise and Abelard end up in Pere Lachaise Cemetery?

Well, the thing is, no one is actually sure if Heloise and Abelard actually lie in Pere Lachaise! The two lovers tragic tale has enthralled and enraptured the hearts of romantics for centuries. Alexander Pope wrote his poem ‘Eloisa to Abelard‘ in 1717 based on the doomed medieval romance.

The remains of both lovers have been moved more than once over time. Although Abelard was first laid to rest in St Marcel, they were later moved and entrusted to the care of Heloise. When Heloise passed away, she was buried next to her beloved Abelard.

Over time, the couple’s remains were moved time and time again. So much so, that there’s now a dispute as to where the bodies actually lie. While the Oratory of the Paraclete insist that the lover’s bodies lie underneath their tomb in Pere Lachaise Cemetery, the caretakers of Pere Lachaise claim that the bones were moved to the crypt.

Others maintain that while Abelard’s remains lie in Pere Lachaise, Heloise’s have been lost. Whatever the case, at least in theory the two fated lovers will lay side by side for all eternity and their forbidden love will continue to touch lives for centuries to come. For those who are searching for more Heloise and Abelard locations in Paris, it’s worth visiting the site of the former monastery in Paris along Rue Chanoinesse.

FATED LOVE IN PERE LACHAISE CEMETERY: THE STORY OF HELOISE AND ABELARD

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5 Comments

  • Reply
    Lisa @ Midwest Glam
    7th October 2016 at 6:17 am

    I can’t take my eyes off the photo! It’s beautiful. What a sad story though.

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    jasna
    5th October 2016 at 1:47 pm

    Such an amazing story 🙂 xx

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    Kasie Chelanne
    5th October 2016 at 5:42 am

    What an incredible story, I wish I had known this prior to visiting Pere Lachaise! It is such a gorgeous and special place in the city…I’ll have to hunt down this tomb next time I am in town!

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    Ashley
    4th October 2016 at 7:24 pm

    What an amazing story- I do wonder if they are actually there! It makes for a sorta happy ending. 🙂

    -Ashley
    Le Stylo Rouge

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    Emily
    4th October 2016 at 6:52 pm

    What a cute little story Sophie!! I love reading tales like this. That tomb/resting places is so so beautiful. I would love to visit it someday and photograph it! I didn’t know Oscar Wilde was burried there either. Last time I was in Paris I was looking for a philosopher’s grave, I don’t remember which one. Maybe Sartre? Grave hunting is so much fun! In a non creepy way of course haha.

    -Emily http://www.coatandcoffee.com

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